So, this last weekend we moved into a 4 bedroom Townhouse.  This was supposed to become the kids nesting house, but yet every time I asked their dad when we were moving the kids, I got an answer of "I don't know" which resulted in my last post...  We ended up setting up air mattresses … Continue reading Whoa…


I’m beginning to think he doesn’t give a 💩

I decided it would be best to move the 'nesting house' back to the city where my kids attend school and have friends.  They have been living in the house my ex and I bought almost 2 years ago, and we transport them to and from school. But I have learned that the kids are … Continue reading I’m beginning to think he doesn’t give a 💩

I thought it was the year of the Rooster?

You know, I can take a lot.  I've been through a lot.  But I draw the line when you bad mouth OUR kids to their face, and talk down to them. Look, I get it.  You're not quite happy that I actually stood up for myself and ended a horrible one sided relationship. I get … Continue reading I thought it was the year of the Rooster?

It’s been a week

Since my kids soon to be step mother arrived from the Phillipines.   It's been...strange. My love and I met her last Friday, right before kiddo 4 & 5 soccer games. She also attended their games with their dad. She seems very shy, and out of sorts.  She's very short, and speaks English with a … Continue reading It’s been a week

This is it

This is the last day that my kids have with just their dad.  Tomorrow afternoon, their dad's fiance arrives from the Philippines. I am scared, I am nervous but most of all I pray that my children welcome her with open arms and treat her with respect. Please God, watch over my children through this … Continue reading This is it